I was at a “virtual” meeting on Skype earlier this week. Usually this meeting, when held in person, is quite challenging as a particular participant is usually impolite and abrupt. Five minutes into the meeting, this person started talking animatedly to ‘Derek’ off screen. We all waited expectantly , and I thought she was probably speaking to her husband, when suddenly the biggest white and ginger cat I have ever seen, was hauled up into full view. ‘Derek’ had been sitting on her documents and she was giving him a pep talk about not interrupting her when she was busy. He took no notice whatsoever of course, and the rest of the meeting was punctuated with Derek appearing on the screen at regular intervals, walking over her keyboard and loudly miaowing. It was the best meeting I ever attended!
My three cats can’t quite work out why I am at home so much at the moment, and occasionally I feel that I am in the way, as they go about their catty business around my house. As usual, when I call one of them, or try and get them to do something, they disappear. When I need them to be quiet, they reappear like magic, and become very vocal. When I’m trying to write, they decide that the only place for them to be in the whole world at that precise moment, is my keyboard. And of course, I love them for it.
Now I am home all day, there is definitely a reluctance to use the tradesman’s entrance (otherwise known as the cat flap). This has gone right out of the window (if you the excuse the pun,) as all 3 cats now stand by the door when they want to pop out for a stroll. No point fighting your way through a cat-flap when there is a friendly member of staff happy to open a door or window for you. Of course, they pop out for about 20 seconds and then want to come back in. I get up and open the door and they sit on the threshold, neither in or out, and look at me. Usually they then slowly turn around and walk back up the garden. As soon as I sit back down again, they want to come back in. I am convinced it is a test. I fantasise that they have cat meetings when no humans are about, discussing catty business and coming up with new ways to test the obedience and compliance of their staff (me).
Buffy is the self proclaimed garden guard. This means that if you walk up the garden she has to accompany you. It’s the rules. She bombs up and down the garden like a dog looking for a stick. I don’t know where she gets the energy as, although she is the largest of my cats, she seems to eat the least. She shouts for food multiple times a day, and takes two small bites (which she drags out of the bowl to eat on the floor), and then walks away. Ten minutes later she is hungry again. But the food in the bowl is now 10 minutes old! She can’t be expected to eat that! And she won’t. Somehow she persuades me to open new food and the pattern is repeated. (Don’t worry -all the leftover food at the end of the day is put at the bottom of our garden and feeds local hedgehogs, foxes and any neighbourhood cats whose owners are not as daft as I.)
Because I am at home so much, my cats have come up with new ways to interact with me. For example, Buffy enjoys a game of hide and seek.
Dennis has kindly taken up yoga with me. He comes and sits on my mat, halfheartedly attempts one or two of the stretches, gives me encouraging looks and kindly sits on my back during the plank pose in order to intensify my workout. He is thoughtful like that.
Dennis is also keen to be involved in whatever I am doing. He stands or sits in the most ‘in the way’ places possible. He stands right behind me when I’m cooking in the kitchen and then shrieks with pain if I step back onto his tail. He then adopts a hurt look until I’m guilted into giving him a treat. This is entirely deliberate and, after 16 years, I’m still falling for it.
Lili sleeps all day and yowls at night. For a small cat she has the biggest miaow I have ever heard. She shouts at me at 5am. I have no idea what she is saying but she seems quite cross. Lili is also the laptop fiend. As soon as the laptop comes out, she appears from wherever she has been sleeping, and settles herself down on the keyboard.
Animals generally have a wonderful way of changing our lives for the better. They cheer us up when we are down and, in the difficult times in which we currently find ourselves, they can provide comfort and a soothing presence. Their love is unconditional and they have the ability to make us smile with the simple wag of their tail or a soft purr. This bond between humans and animals is nothing new, and it’s not surprising that these faithful companions are so important now when we may be feeling lost, frightened and worried about the future.
The benefits of pet ownership for general health and wellbeing are well known. Cats, dogs, hamsters, fish, rabbits and even pigs are known to reduce loneliness and anxiety. They also add structure to our day and provide focus. In our current Lockdown quarantine, which some of us are being forced to endure alone, pets are quite literally proving a lifesaver, providing companionship, a welcome distraction and comfort.
For those of us who love animals, it’s virtually impossible to stay in a low mood when we look into beautiful soft doggy eyes, or when a fluffy cat rubs up against us. Owning a pet gives us a reason to get up in the morning and helps us to get moving. Dog owners benefit both physically and socially from dog walking (even if we are socially distancing), and as a cat owner I also get plenty of exercise from pandering to my cats’ demands all day as documented earlier.
Owning a pet may improve heart health by lowering blood pressure and regulating the heart rate during stressful situations. It is thought that owning a pet lowers the risk of heart disease, as well as lowering stress so that heart capacity and performance is improved.
Even in normal life when we are not socially distancing, animals can be there for us in ways that people can’t. They can offer love and companionship, and can also enjoy comfortable silences, never judge, keep secrets, and most love a cuddle. They are a wonderful cure for loneliness and they give us so much whilst asking so little in return.
For those who don’t currently have a pet, I hope Lockdown has encouraged thinking about owning one. Animal charities have reported an increase in adoptions, even though a lot of re-homing centres are currently closed. Battersea Dogs and Cats Home managed to rehome 86 dogs and 69 cats in one week in March, more than double the animals placed during the same period last year!
If you do have an animal (or two) who lives in your house, I hope they are helping at the moment, especially if you are alone and feeling lonely in isolation. If you don’t have a cat or a dog, a guinea pig or a llama (!), maybe when this is all over, it may be time to think of adopting one. So many unwanted cats and dogs and other animals are waiting at this very moment in homes all across the country. Please think about giving one a home. I promise that they will repay everything you give them a hundred fold, in unconditional love, companionship, and joy.
Your kitty’s are beautiful. And so are you. Yes so agree with you. My pups has been passed for many yrs but my daughters cat is here and she is not a very interactive cat but notice now she is I believe she likes the daily steady attention.
Ah thank you! Yes the more attention you give a cat, the more they will involve themselves in your life. ❤️😺
Your so welcome. They are definitely different than a dog. 😊
Thanks for your cat posts, most of them really are great friends. We are currently pet less since our last cat died and had decided to be without for a few years while we did our retirement travelling. Of course since that has been curtailed our thoughts have strayed again to cat ownership.
I don’t think you can ever regret owning a cat (or being owned by a cat)… I hope you can organise an adoption soon- there are so many waiting patiently 🙏😕
I really enjoyed reading this… very well written, I can relate to all of it. I love how all your cats have totally different characters, just like mine, and they really are the best company in this lockdown.
Ah thank you so much – yes they are little furry people with their own habits and personalities 😺😺Thank you for reading x
I have a local cat who has for some time now adopted me, in fact there seem days when he is never away from me. I’ve never been a pet owner, not for any particular reason, but I find ‘Gigi’ extremely comforting whilst living alone under lockdown conditions especially.
Each evening he will re-ermerge from the garden to demand entry to my home and then position himself straight on my lap. I’m pretty certain he understands how much of a comfort he is to me. Almost certain that he’s trying to talk to me also. What a wonderful companion!
That’s so lovely. Cats certainly choose us! It sounds as though you and Gigi are both getting something out of the relationship. x
The old saying….’ Cats Rule’ is definitely true. Heck,even the ancient Egyptians found that out.
…. and cats have never forgotten that they were once worshipped… in our house nothing much has changed 😂😂
Paws down, some of the coolest and prettiest cat models I’ve ever seen on the web. I have a Tabby named Buffy, too. Adorably mischievous.
Thank you – I will relate your comments to Lili, Dennis and Buffy. ❤️I love Tabby’s… I would rescue another 20 cats if I could! 😬
So adorable. Let them know I said he. 😊💕
I live in a flat because of the housing crisis, so we’re not allowed pets. Although I kept hamsters illegally for years. I’ve love a cat, but it doesn’t seem likely within the next decade. *Sob story*
However, just staring at pets online is a big help. I’ve been following Alex the Honking Bird on YouTube he’s very cute and funny. Maru the cat in Japan is also great. Very fond of cardboard boxes, that one.
Ah yes I can imagine. There are so many famous animals with their own platforms now… I love it! ❤️
I love how cats have that malevolent threat about them – especially when a camera is pointed at them. Great photos!
Thank you – my cats love to pose 😬
Our cat has now uses the cat flap as a door knocker to indicate when she wants to go out or come in.
Sounds about right …. 😂😂
This could have been written about my life at the moment. My cat today managed to con two evening meals out of me and then tried to persuade my son I had bforgotten her. I try and work and she is sitting on the paper I need, I move her and she goes to the keyboard. I am also doing yoga but if I am on the floor then I need to be attacked, pounced on and even bitten. Not very relaxing thank you your piece made me chuckle
They are so funny aren’t they! They are family… and they know it! Thank you for reading.
My husband and I do the Eldergym online classes and yesterday at the end during our cool down phase we heard a bark! After another minute the Coach Doug said he had to let his dog in. And in he came.He is a cross breed and a rescue. He wandered about a bit and then left. Somehow it made Coach Doug a more real person to have a dog he let in to the end of the class.Dogs name is lucky and today in the comments someone asked where he was. Doug said he was still out in the garden.
That’s lovely! I certainly have more time for humans who have time for animals!
I see a few patterns there. 5 must be a magical time 😉
Thank you for reading!